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Name: Tess Home: St. Louis

I'm now a graduate student in public health at Washington University in St. Louis... as well as a writer, parent, and teacher. I haven't updated this blog recently, but I may come back to it in the future.


E-mail: tessthompson (at) hotmail (dot) com

Friday, January 27, 2006

Ben's First Surgery

Ben got ear tubes in this morning, and overall the surgery went well. Like many milestones in his life, I think his first surgery was harder on me than it was on him. I hated the thought of Ben being knocked out and was worried he'd have an adverse reaction to the anethesia.

We had to get him to the hospital by 6 AM, which was a pain; there, Ben changed into peach hospital pajamas and met other babies and toddlers who were having surgery. I wish I had brought my camera for a photo essay--he was very cute sitting on the "big boy bed" and coloring. Then the nurse gave him some meds to relax him, and he started lolling around with a drunk smile on his face. They took him away, and the surgery was done before I could return from the cafeteria with a cup of coffee.

When they brought Ben back, he was grouchy as the gas wore off. Nursing calmed him right down, and he cuddled and dozed in my lap for a while. Then we brought him home and he watched The Best of Elmo DVD five times, and ate peaches and a peanut butter sandwich for lunch. By late afternoon, he was his chipper self again.

8 Comments:

Blogger Milliner's Dream, a woman of many "hats"... said...

I'm SOOOO glad this went well. Having been at the hospital these last two days working with a post op patient I am relieved to know he's his "old self".

I'm also glad you survived. Having been the one standing by with all our manboys childhood surgeries, means I know that this is one of those times you really earn your "Mom" stripes.

Hh

7:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I echo Hannah's relief knowing that everything went well. I can imagine that I would be a nervous wreck if Thomas went in for surgery, no matter how "minor." I suppose some of it's from watching too much ER.

8:35 PM  
Blogger Kellee said...

Way to go, Ben!! You too, mommy! From what I understand, getting tubes is a great thing and will help so much.

P.S. There is no such thing as "minor" surgery when it's your baby.

9:10 PM  
Blogger Elisa said...

Glad it went well for him. I can't believe all that hair!

Isn't it funny how fast they grow?

3:32 PM  
Blogger Counting_Blessings said...

What a trooper Ben is and what a trooper you are Tess. DH and I are both glad the surgery went well and quickly. I hope that everything is easier with his ears from this point forward.

Bring on more Elmo!

tracy

8:30 PM  
Blogger Kaela said...

Poor Ben!

I hope you're all recovering.

12:25 AM  
Blogger Tess said...

Ben continues to do wonderfully. In fact, we're wondering what we've unleashed--he has been super-cheerful and energetic, and into everything.

6:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm slowly working my way through your old messages. So much of what you went through with Ben, I went through with one or the other of my two. Including the ear tubes. After Anna got hers, I brought her home and she sat on the floor saying "Dada dada dada" for a good 15 minutes straight. (Probably because she sounded different to herself). It was a hard decision, but I think we made the right choice doing it. She hasn't had any problems with her ears since!

7:00 AM  

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